Why is it that more black males are dating white women? Black women desires more time from black males including a commitment after so many years of dating, as well as come into contact with the soft and caring side of their hearts. However, it seems as if black men will date black women for years and never ask for their hands in marriage, but as soon as they start to date a white woman in a shorter period of time they marry the white woman.
In addition, Black males seem to be much more respectful to white women. Are we losing our black males to white women because they know how to treat black men better than black women? Could it be that white women are more submissive, and respectfully allow their men to perform the duties as head of the house? Is it that many black women are being raised in a single home with only their mother, and all they can relate too is a woman perspective of who runs the home? Is it that black women want a lot, but are not willing to do what it takes make their men happy not including sex? Maybe these are some of the possible reasons why black men might desire a white woman, but could it be that the problem is not with just the black women? There is a group of black males who are not happy with whom they are, culture wise. They want to be accepted by the other race, so they believe within themselves if they date white women it will set them apart from the other blacks. Some black males are not too fond of a natural/ nappy hair women, so they rather have children with a white women with flowing hair of different textures, so their daughter/ sons can have the look they in vision for themselves. Hmmm……remember this is just something to talk about.
Finally, maybe the black generation is still being controlled under the slavery mentality? If they empower the black women, deny the corporate jobs from black men, and then black men will always lack funds to take care of their households. As a result, black women will become dissatisfied and cause the black males to walk away from their families. This strategic action produces a generation of black home to become dysfunctional. Hmmm… This is just something to talk about. Black women please, take the time out to understand your black males, and remember that he is called to be a leader and most of all head of his household. If black women show compassion towards black males and empower them, this might change black man’s view on how to treat and cherish their woman.