Why does the human nature find it a difficult task to forgive each other? Many time people say they forgive love ones/ friends who have done wrong to them, but yet anger grows so deeply toward the individual who have upset them for years. Is it easy to forgive and forget? In order to forgive we must come to the full knowledge of love. Love is not boastful, nor is it upon certain conditions. Love causes one to look beyond each other’s faults, meaning accepting the truth that “yes I am hurt over what you have done towards me, but I forgive you”. The next time you decide to hold unforgiveness in your heart please draw the curtains back and think about the person you have caused pain. To top this very short paragraph, “I will forgive you as you forgive those who trespass against you”. Forgiveness causes illness in the body, and connects to a chain of negative vibes. When you walk in love, it propels you to look beyond the faults of others and see the depths as well as reasons for their actions. Please remember this is just something to talk about.
As a result of forgiving the people who have caused you pain, you now teach them who to extend the same for someone has forgiven them for their actions. Having a forgiving heart takes practice, but it is rewarding after it becomes a part of your heart exercise. If there is someone you are holding anger against just give them a call and tell them how you feel a respectfully, and including the fact that you forgave them. I guarantee that you will release them from their unspoken pain as well as your-self from bottled-up anger. Please remember this is just something to talk about.